This star stuff (from lower right) is surrendering in this depiction of what happens when one gets a bit too close to a black hole (gravitational, human emotional, situational, or otherwise). Some of the star stuff also goes on a journey away from the black hole to create anew, and the sorrow is stored by the black hole itself. So, when you surrender, it will feel like loss, but there will be left just enough to grow something new. Just enough. Feel that, and move on when it’s time, leaving your sorrow behind.
Image Credit: NASA, S. Gezari, and J. Guillochon