The Energy Gift

Camelopardalis red giant star blowing off gasThe energy gift is in the cycle, from matter to energy and back again. And also from the fact that energy moves, it acts.

We all feel ourselves spending energy throughout the day, to support others, to support ourselves. Remember the cycle, though, for to give is to receive, but you have to be…willing. A hug is a gift, for example, but it goes both ways. Think of how your other energy gifts actually reciprocate, even if you don’t see it right away (paying forward with that smile at the convenience store—what ripples of energy might occur and then come back to you?).

A star exchanges energy for stability to burn, then exchanges energy for the power to create elements (gold and silver, even, if it’s a big star). Loss is gain, gain is loss, loss is gain, there is no loss, in the end (because there is no end—to the exchange).

Breathing gives, and receives. Breathe, live. Remember to receive as well as give, and you will always be full. :)

For more on this energetic topic, see also my friend Jean Hamilton-Fford’s article on Energy Awareness and Management, here.

Blessings!

To Know, Like, and Trust

clothing_store_salesI went on a rare for me trip to “the mall” to buy new clothes for my first business trip since 2007 (ah, the joys of the freelance life working from home!). Dreaded the great search for something that would work and not break the bank. I did find a little dress and some shoes eventually, but the very best part about the whole experience was…the human connection. No, not just people watching in the mall, but the helpfulness of the sales staff in the stores. I don’t know if the Apple Store’s aura has spread, or if retail corporations have rediscovered their ethic of customer service (and maybe commission-based sales), but I really noticed an uptick in the quality of sales service in both large department stores (Dillard’s in my case) and smaller boutique outlets (Express and The Limited). I felt connected and taken care of in both types of places. Makes me want to do more of my shopping in the real world rather than online, actually. Which brings me to the title of this post.

I’ve been reading marketing philosophy material for some time now, and although I’m getting tired of the “3 things/5 things/10 things” bit with some of the posts I’ve been reading, one theme seems to come through as most common-sensical to me: People do business with other people they know, like, and trust (which is what the folks in the mall stores were fostering so well).

Also, folks tend to be looking not so much for “stuff” but for experiences that they think they need that “stuff” in order to have (like my cheerful one with retail the other week). Steve Jobs of Apple Computer understood the human desire for a certain kind of experience, usually involving the excitement of the new, the potential for making processes faster and easier, the aesthetics of visual experience, and the nice feeling of making connections. I got all of these needs fulfilled by the sales folks at the mall. The quality and fit of the clothes counted also, but the shopping experience turned out to be more important to me.

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Stay curious about your customers and prospects (without being nosy), and the liking and trusting bit will follow pretty easily. That’s been my experience with my own businesses. Most of my best reviews (like on my editorial biz site here) are about the relationship with the client. I’d say customer services makes up at least 40 percent of what gives satisfaction and creates referrals.

So, do your customers know, like, and trust you? And how do you go about getting to know them, please them, and build trust? Take a look at your website this coming week, and ask yourself those questions in terms of how you present yourself and your products and/or services. And let me know what you find and what you think you’ll change, as a result.

Blog Post Picks of the Week

Lynn Serafinn, at 7 Graces of Marketing gives her philosophy on building an integral business that will generate trust. Check it out.

Paul and Jon over at Change Agents branding have a really wondrous attitude about marketing in general, and their take on trust is here.

Life’s Tenacity

1024px-Panda_Cub_from_Wolong,_Sichuan,_ChinaBeen watching a series of BBC nature shows over at Hulu.com (HuluPlus subscription required—and worth it). Also had a great time with Neil DeGrasse Tyson’s Cosmos series over the last three months. And yes, there’s a relationship. :)

Life is the relationship. Whether it’s known life here on planet Earth, or speculated life on, say, Jupiter’s moon Europa, life is extremely tenacious. It’s amazing to me that even when the environment seems quite hostile (volcanic vents at the bottom of the ocean or high deserts in South America), some form of life seems to inevitably figure out a way to survive.

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People worry about the fragility of life, usually when they are talking about individual species that seem to be threatened by human activity, and an individual species (not to mention individuals within a species) can be very fragile indeed. But life as a whole is probably the most persistent self-replicating form of matter in the universe. In the Cosmos series, Tyson talked about several mass extinctions on the Earth, and one of them knocked out about 90 percent or maybe more of all species (not an asteroid hit, that one, but volcanism). And yet, and yet, each loss created opportunities for new life forms to develop.

This truth does not mean that I think we should disregard the plight of pandas or spotted owls or not care about the balance of wildlife and human life on Earth, but just think about the possibilities if life is so tenacious. Chances are good, then that some form of carbon-based life exists outside of Earth, in the oceans of Europa, or even in the thick methane atmosphere of Saturn’s moon, Titan. And those are just two examples from our solar system. Who knows what life forms exist beyond that?

One thing to keep in mind, though, is that life doesn’t have a particular attachment to any specific form, so if we humans want to continue on into future generations and also have access to both the utility and beauty created by the other life forms around us now, we will have to take the actions necessary to support the environment that supports us.

As always, our world is entirely up to us.

Cooperation—For the Win

pirogue à balancier, Vanuatu, Océanie. Outrigger canoe, Vanuatu, OceaniaI’ve been watching this great BBC program on the South Pacific over at Hulu.com (you need HuluPlus to watch, sorry). All about the islands and atolls sprinkled across this area, along with the deep blue sea.

This is what struck me as I watched an episode on human habitation across the islands: cooperation wins. The narrator (Benedict Cumberbatch—great voiceover dude, although this show does hide his visual fan-girl appeal) compares the human cultures in two of the islands with what happened in one of the most isolated, Easter Island.

These islands are small, and food and other basic resources are limited. Human groups seem to have different ways of dealing with this situation. In the two “cooperation” islands (can’t remember their names), all food caught or cultivated is shared in the group, and over-hunting or -farming seems to be avoided. There’s a sense of balance that naturally makes sure that resources will be available tomorrow and a hundred years from now for the humans to use. And it’s not like there’s a sense of sacrifice for the group; they’ve just chosen a sharing culture, and it seems to work well over generations.

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In contrast, on Easter Island, a culture of competition grew up a thousand years ago or so, and the people became focused on moving these large stone figures to the shore to have the best portrayal of the gods for their own benefit as individuals or factions within the group. The problem was that a whole lot of wood was necessary to move these statues, and the people depleted the original tropical forest that had grown on the island until the whole ecosystem it supported collapsed and there was no way to support humans or any other animals. The result was war among tribal factions and a dramatic drop in human population (which was aggravated even further by European discover and transmission of disease). Unfortunately, it takes a very, very long time to naturally create flora and fauna on these isolated islands, so Easter Island may not recover from this human competition for another few million years. A shame.

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Only the dead stones are left to mark this cemetery of human pride.

Friendly competition has its place in encouraging innovation, but in the day-to-day use of resources, cooperation wins over time. I think my American homeland’s focus on individualism and competition over cooperation does not bode well for the longevity of the democratic political experiment here. But we’ll see what the next generation decides to create. :)

How have cooperation and competition worked for you in your own life (not the bigger political picture, but your own career, relationships, etc.). I’d like to know.

 

Failure—The Path Out of the Box

463px-M_Faraday_Th_Phillips_oil_1842I was really impressed with this dude from the 19th century who was profiled on the new Cosmos program last week. I always thought the great lights of physics were two: Newton and Einstein. But in between, there was Michael Faraday. His experimental work on electromagnetism opened up the universe for Einstein’s theories of relativity.

The list of understandings and inventions we take for granted (electrical motors in particular) is very long (see more over at his Wikipedia article).

The most interesting part of his story for me, though, is how he worked given the challenges he faced (abject poverty, lack of formal education). Persistence through repeated failure seems to have been his modus operandi. And, eventually, it paid off, although he ended up using a leftover from a non-electrical experiment failure in glass lens manufacture to achieve one of his most critical successes (proof that magnetism affected rays of light by polarizing them) in showing the relationship of elemental forces.

In the Cosmos program, Neil deGrasse Tyson, the host/narrator, showed all the different substances that Faraday tried to get the polarizing effect that would show this magnetic influence on light. One after another, all the chemicals he tried failed. Then finally he looked around the lab and spied his failed lens material experiment (a block of glass). I can imagine him thinking in exasperation, “Why not?” and then being amazed at the result.

Faraday also suffered a bit from “do it by myself-itis.” His lack of advanced mathematical skills caused the scientific community to question his results since he couldn’t come up with the mathematical equations to prove them. Faraday wasn’t so good at asking for help directly, but he did publicize his experiments in speeches and demonstrations. Luckily for him, James Clerk Maxwell heard about his work and came up with the math to support it.

So, if you’re feeling frustrated that things aren’t coming out as you would wish, don’t forget to look around beyond the usual set of solutions (maybe even within a past failure in something unrelated) and ask “Why not?” You never know where or who your solution might come from.

I’d love to hear how you have persisted through failures to achieve success with out-of-the-box ideas or with a great partnership; we can all benefit from your own story, trust me. :)

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